I always tell couples that their wedding film should feel like stepping back into a moment rather than watching someone else’s version of it. That begins with finding someone who sees themselves not merely as a documentarian, but as a storyteller. A documentarian captures what happens. A storyteller captures why it matters. The right filmmaker will understand that your nervous laughter as you get ready, the trembling in your voice as you say your vows, the way your family looks at you, and the quiet glances you share throughout the day are not just details—they are threads that hold the story together.
What makes a wedding film truly meaningful is the connection between the couple and the cinematographer. You want to feel comfortable, understood and seen. This relationship starts long before the wedding day. When couples reach out to me, I always begin by asking about their story—how they met, what they love about each other, and what kind of moments mean the most to them. These conversations help me understand what to pay attention to, what to highlight and what aspects of their relationship should guide the emotional tone of the film. Because what matters is that the film feels like you.